Breastfeeding:

Afterward, the mother should focus on breastfeeding the newborn child until the age of weaning.

Natural milk from the mother has a huge effect in the health and upbringing of a child. Allaah instructs the mothers to breastfeed their children for two complete years. This is for those wish to complete the period of breastfeeding. Allaah says:

"The mothers shall give suck to their children for two whole years (that is) for those (parents) who desire to complete the term of suckling." [Surah Al-Baqarah: 233]

The reason for this is because the infant senses the affection of the mother while breastfeeding and he is in need of that.

Modern medicine has confirmed that there is a high percentage rate of disease and death for those children that were fed in their infancy with processed milk. Natural milk is also advantageous to the mother's health in terms of mending the uterus after delivery and her digestive system.

Islaam also encourages it for it permits the breastfeeding mother to break her fast in Ramadaan if the fast will have an effect on her breastfeeding.

Perhaps one of the reasons why many children are not affectionately attached to their mothers and why there is such widespread disobedience of them in these times is due to the lack of using natural milk and the high use of processed milk.

Since breastfeeding has such an effect on the child being breastfed, the Prophet (sallAllaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) prohibited Muslims from employing a dumb woman for the purposing of breastfeeding one's child. [1]

Ibn Qaasim, may Allaah have mercy on him, said in Haashiyat-ur-Rawd commenting on this hadeeth: "This is since breastfeeding has an effect on an individual's nature." Then he said: "Al-Qaadee mentioned that whoever is breastfed from a stupid woman, the child too will come out being stupid. And whoever is breastfed from a woman with bad manners, it will pass onto him. And whoever is breastfed from an animal, he will come out senseless, like an animal." [2]

Ibn Qudaamah, may Allaah have mercy on him, said in al-Mughnee: "It is said: 'Breastfeeding changes personalities.'"

So how much more so for those who are fed formula milk which one does not even know the source from where it came or who processed it?

Source: "Raising Children in Light of the Qur'aan and Sunnah" by 'Abdus-Salaam As-Sulaymaan. The book was introduced and commended by Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan.]

Kindness to the Mother

"Abu Huraira reported that a person came to Allah, 's Messenger (صلى الله عليه وسلم) and said: Who (among the people) is most deserving of a fine treatment from my hand?

He said: Your mother.

He again said: Then who (is the next one)?

He said: Again it is your mother (who deserves the best treatment from you).

He said: Then who (is the next one)?

He (the Holy Prophet) said: Again, it is your mother.

He (again) said: Then who?

Thereupon he said: Then it is your father."

Saheeh Muslim: Book 032, Number 6180

HONORING ONE’S MOTHER AFTER HER DEATH

By Ash Shaykh Al ‘Allaamah ‘Abdul ‘Azeed ibn Baaz
Source http://www.sahab.com
Question: How can I honour and show righteousness towards my mother after her death?
Answer: All praise is due to Allaah.
It has been established from the Prophet (salAllaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) that a questioner asked him: O Messenger of Allaah, is there anything left by way of honouring and showing righteousness towards my parents which I may honour them with and show righteousness towards them after their death? And the Messenger of Allaah (salAllaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: ‘[sending] the prayers upon them, and seeking forgiveness for them, and the execution of their promise/ contract [that they may have] after them [i.e. their death] and showing respect and kindness towards their friends, and the ties of kinship which cannot be reached except by way of them [i.e. linked to them].’
All this is from honouring and showing righteousness towards the parents after their death.
And we advise you to make du’aa for your mother and seek forgiveness for her and to execute and carry out her legislated Will and to show righteousness and kindness towards her friends and (to maintain the) kinship with your maternal uncles and maternal aunts and the rest of your relatives from your mothers side.
May Allaah give you success and make your affair easy for you, and accept (the good actions) from us and from you and from all the muslims – and Allaah is the Successful.